Do not ignore self-care for the sake of love and dating

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We should not forget ourselves

The general tendency in love is that we forget all about “self” and our focus mainly goes to our partner but that is not healthy for your “own self”. If you don’t take proper care of yourself or maybe think in terms of “Okay I will deal with myself later” the chances are you will harm your mental state on a long term basis.

We all need love and make every effort to get it and when we succeed in finding someone of our choice we try to adjust with them as much as possible even going out of the way but we should not forget “ourselves” in the process. Do not ignore self-care for the sake of love and dating. Or do you get fully involved in the beginning itself?

Maybe the person you thought was good enough but later you found that they were not up to your choice or you two were not made for each other then what will be your course of action. The best way is to keep a safe distance as long you are fully satisfied and if you still feel or have doubts, better come out of that uncomfortable relation.

Most people feel nice when they meet with someone with certain similar hobbies or like them based on their physical attraction and forget everything else but feel they have found their ultimate sole-mate. They then sacrifice everything else to impress them or to please them but let me warn you do not scarifies your own happiness unless you are sure.

There is nothing wrong in looking for a companion but never compromise with your choices or compromise with your liking because you might regret your decision and feel at loss of self-confidence if you miss your desired qualities in your partner.

It may sound a bit selfish or against the set norms of what we all have heard about love that love is selfless but in my views we should place us before the one we chose to be our companion. If you don’t love your own self, you love no one else too.


Love relations and self care

No one can deny the importance of love in his life bit having said that kind of creepy feeling took over me so I decided to write something that will clear my views further on love relations. There is no doubt about the fact that affection and love are important aspects of life and one can’t live without love and affection but at the same time people should understand about their priorities too.

Here is a list of few simple questions. What is most important thing in your life or what gives more satisfaction to you? I know for most of us love has the top spot on the list of priorities but there is nothing wrong if you make a list of self-care and follow it religiously. And there is one more question from you at this point, just why can’t you love yourself even when you are in a relationship?

A good self-care plan consists of regular exercising, enough quality sleep, good dietary habits, do what you love doing, quality time with friends and relatives or add in the list what gives you most satisfaction including outdoor or indoor games, music, movies, outings with friends or jogging and walking, rock climbing, bush walking etc.

There is lot more to life than dating and relationship. You have a life and you have to live it according to your own personal preference. You have certain goals to achieve so focus on them and you will be surprised to see that you are able to take better decisions as far your hobbies are concerned.

Know your own value

The only purpose of this post is to highlight the importance of your own importance because giving importance to someone else it is important to take your personal care. However, taking personal care doesn’t mean being self-obsessed or excessively preoccupied with one’s own life and circumstances or thinking only about your own self but once you learn loving your own you will see an increased level of confidence of your own capabilities.

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Author: suny

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13 thoughts on “Do not ignore self-care for the sake of love and dating”

  1. mohammed says:

    Qual è la cosa più importante nella tua vita o cosa ti dà più soddisfazione?

  2. SOURAV BISWAS says:

    love is a part of our life.we can not live without love.so we should care of love .

  3. ALLAM PAVAN KUMAR says:

    THAT WAS A GOOD SAYING ABOUT LOVE AND DATING. THANK YOU.

  4. nimra says:

    life is one and its a blessing of Allah and no one should waste its beauty for the sake of other wishings.

  5. MissK says:

    OMG, I agree with what you say. Personally, my first boyfriend was quite a man-child and so he like needs some constant attention and such. Overtime, for me, he grew quite overbearing though don’t get me wrong I still love him that time. However it just struck me one day when I looked in the mirror and saw how chaotic my work schedule and I had little to no time for myself that I realized I needed some ME time now

  6. bujji says:

    This is most important thing in your life, and good self-care plan consists of regular exercising,

  7. Ahtesham Russel says:

    love relation is very sweet relation in the world.always need to respect this relation.very nice article read in now.thanks for this article.

  8. tailor says:

    Some people are apathetic. I think self-care is better for us.

  9. Eduardo says:

    We must never forget to love ourselves and then be loved by someone else. Good article should not be forgotten.

  10. nancy-coart says:

    Ignorant is bad behavior, based on whatever itself. However, ignorant is the most factor that will break the love relationship.
    It’s a good article to pay attention to.

  11. zakharding says:

    Self respect is more valuable then fake love.

  12. muhammad bazaid ali says:

    wow amazing by reading the article i cometo know about the power of love iam really depressed by tensions but this article open my eyes

  13. muhammad bazaid ali says:

    wow amazing by reading the article i cometo know about the power of love iam really depressed by tensions but this article open my eyes and the fantastic thing is that the way of explaining is great

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