I will decide whether I am happy or not so happy with my life
Have you heard the famous quote, “When someone tells me “no,” it doesn’t mean I can’t do it, it simply means I can’t do it with them”
Or have you heard people complaining about their weight gain or loss? Or worse still giving you suggestions to either gain or lose weight in order to look better. I say heck with negativity- Stay with the real face value.
I say heck with all such advisers, I am okay the way I am and I will do according to my own decision. I am the best judge how I decide to look and finally I will decide whether I am happy or not so happy with my life. I am the best person to give myself guidance or recommendations or offer with regard to prudent future actions.
Present generation is capable of doing things in a positive way
I have a firm believe that the present generation has a perfect and creative mind that knows all about the human spirit. The present generation is well equipped with how and what they should do to improve their future. They are good enough and can use their self abilities and even change the older style of working with innovative ideas.
We have seen a lot of changes over the years for instance a telephone which did not have a dial but you had to call the manual exchange to connect your required number. From the the foot operated printing press to automatic machines that can print, fold and pack thousands of newspapers within no time. But may I ask where do these ideas come from?
I am firm believer in ‘face value‘, which literately means the printed or certified value of something which you cannot change or the apparent worth or implication of something. But face value is also explained in terms with values related with facts of life. You do not know what the person with a smiling face is facing inside him so it’s better to be polite toward everyone.
They know how to fight with their problems
But I also believe that the value of something might be altogether different from what it looks on its face value. You can see lots of smiling faces in the crowd but you do not see the sadness hidden behind those smiling faces as every person in this world is fighting a struggle of his own. Only the one who is suffering from a particular problem will know about that problem but you will see his smiling face.
If you have ever played with the keyboard of a harmonium or harmonica you might have noticed that joy and sorrow resemble to the keys of harmonium with same music of life coming from white and the black keys. However, our attention doesn’t get beyond the sad notes and almost always fail to listen to the joyful ones.
We never end complaining but fail to enjoy the pleasant notes. We fail to remember the joyful moments but never forget the sad ones. Or when something goes wrong you always feel ‘why it’s me again’ maybe not it’s you alone but thousands other suffering with same problem at this very moment. The fact that no one wants to accept that joy and sorrow are part of the life and we have to live with both of them.