A particular Moment of Anger Can Change Your Future Life
A moment of anger
I was reading a story about a person who came out of the prison after completion of his life term for a murder. He committed this crime 22 years before when he was 24 under a momentary rush of blood to his head which he never thought he would have done in his right mind. A particular moment of anger can change your future life.
The way he described his story the guilt was written all over his statement. The words he used “Never let the anger control of your heart or brain because that moment will pass by but you will be never the same again. You will be left to regret what you did in that particular moment”. But is there really you can help yourself being in such a state?
I agree with what he said as it’s a universal truth that a person in grip of anger forgets all about his real self and begins behaving like a beast. In fact, he acts like a savage during the entire duration he lives under the state of annoyance. He also forgets about his good virtues or does something that he would not even think A of in his right frame of mind.
Loss of Your reputation
The statement of this person reflects a lot of sense. There is no doubt that a particular moment of anger can become the cause of loss you put a lot of efforts to earn your reputation in this society. In such a case the loss could range from your reputation, the experiences you gained by doing hard work, money you earned with lots of mental and physical labor or whatever else that you put your precious efforts to gain. But a sudden rush of blood to your head ruins everything in a moment.
The truth is a person is never the same man while in an angry stage and then he easily forgets the difference in between good and bad. A man tends to act cruelly and rudely during the period of angry stage. The medical science has proved it beyond any doubt that an angry person is at serious risk of adverse health related issues.
There is a famous saying in our local language that if translated will read, “Anger is like fire only wise can extinguish it but a man that has no control on anger will only burn himself”.
The positive way of utilizing your anger
Now the other aspect of anger! There is no doubt about the fact that it’s not easy to reduce anger especially the unhealthy anger. You might at this point ask if there was a something like healthy anger too. Yes, there are moments when your anger brings positive moments for you. This kind of anger encourages you to do something positive or accept the challenges which bring good results that might change your life.
It’s matter of practice and positive attitude or if we have the capacity to mold ourselves and aim for changing our anger towards the positive results. Then there is every possibility that our positive anger would bring good result not for only ourselves but for the entire society.